Posts Tagged ‘lent’

Giving It One More Chance: a children’s sermon on the parable of the fig tree

Sunday, March 7th, 2010

This week’s lectionary texts include an under-discussed parable, the story of the unproductive fig tree and the gardener who suggests that all it really needs is a little more manure. There are lots of resonances here as we approach Holy Week: Jesus cursing the fig tree on his way into Jerusalem, Mary Magdalene mistaking Jesus for the gardener on Easter morning. And there are lots of applications for our Lenten journey, as well: if we’re not succeeding so well in our attempt at spiritual practices and fasts (uh, daily posting, anyone?), we should give them one more chance before calling it quits.

In talking about this parable with the kids tomorrow morning, I’m planning to bring back the potted Alleluia we buried on Transfiguration Sunday. It’s a risky sermon because it depends on getting the “right” response to a question — what if the kids agree that it’s best just to give up and start again? We shall see.

You might remember that we buried a word in this pot, a very happy word, a word we are not allowed to say until Easter. We can’t say that word out loud now, because it’s the very serious season of Lent.

Well, it’s been three whole weeks now since we planted it, and NOTHING has happened! Nothing has grown! All I see here is dirt! I am SO mad about this. I really thought something was going to grow by now. What is taking so long? It is so frustrating! I am so mad that I think maybe we should just turn this pot upside down, dump out all the dirt, and start all over again. What do you think? Do you think I should give up?

(hopefully, at least one kid will say no)

Why do you think that? (talk for a minute with the kids) Hmm, do you think I should wait a while before giving up? Maybe give it another chance?

You know, this reminds me of a story Jesus told once. He said there was a man who was growing a fig tree in his garden, because he really wanted to eat some figs. But for three whole years, there were no figs on the tree. He was really angry, and wanted to chop the tree down.

But before he could do that, his gardener said, “Wait. Let’s give this tree one more year. Let’s water it, and fertilize it, and take excellent care of it. Maybe it will grow some figs then. Let’s wait and see.”

Lent is a time for waiting for Easter to come. Sometimes we don’t see what we hope for right away. But we can’t give up. We have to give it time. We have to give it another chance. Let’s give our pot full of dirt another chance. We’ll wait until Easter and see what happens.

Let’s say a prayer together: Dear God - please help us - while we wait - and show us - the great things - you have in store for us - Amen!

Old Palms and Real Fire: a children’s sermon for the first Sunday of Lent

Sunday, February 21st, 2010

I’ve posted two possible children’s sermons already for the first Sunday of Lent, but I don’t plan to use either of them in the morning. Instead, I’ll be using the words below to invite the children, belatedly, into the ritual of Ash Wednesday. (Because our Ash Wednesday liturgy takes place on a weekday at noontime, there are never children present.) Like burying the alleluia, this is the second year in a row I’ve done this with the kids. Last year they were wide-eyed with wonder at the idea of actually burning the palms. “You’re only going to pretend to have fire,” one of them said, confidently, but no — with the help of a large tray of sand, a small crucible of folded aluminum foil, and a lighter, we actually burned them. (Warning if you’ve never burned palms before: they smell kind of … suspicious. Not unlike other, um, herbal materials you might have smelled burning in the past.) Be sure, of course, that the kids are standing far, far back from the burning palms and that you emphasize that they are not to try this at home! This is a good time to have another couple adults on hand to provide adequate supervision.

(Show last year’s palms.) Do you remember these? What kind of branches are these? (Palms!) Last year, on Palm Sunday, the Sunday before Easter, we had a parade with these branches. We marched around and waved our branches and shouted “Hosanna!” as we welcomed Jesus into Jerusalem. It was such a happy day. Do you remember that?

Back then, the branches were green and fresh. But now - feel them - they are crunchy and dried out and turning brown. They wouldn’t make a very good parade any more. It would be a sad parade, with these dead, dry palms.

But these palms are still good for something. We can crumple them up, burn them a fire, and make ashes. Ashes are the black dust that’s left over when you have a fire. Long, long ago, ashes made people think of all the parts of their lives that were not good enough - all the parts of their own lives that seemed dusty and burned up. Maybe they felt sorry that they had said something mean to a friend. Maybe they felt sorry that they had taken something that didn’t belong to them. When they looked at the ashes, they thought about how sorry they felt. And so, to show everyone that they were sorry, they put ashes on their heads.

We are beginning a new season in our church year: the season of Lent. Lent is a time when we get ready for Easter. If we want to celebrate Easter right, if we want to be completely filled with joy and happiness, we need to be new people, filled with the new life that God gives. First, we need to look at our lives and ask if there’s anything we are doing that needs to change. If there is, we feel sorry, and we try to change our ways. God loves us so much that God helps us change into new and better people.

On the first day of Lent, Ash Wednesday, we gather together to tell God that we’re sorry and we want to change. As a sign, we put ashes on our foreheads, just like people did long ago. The minister draws the ashes on us in the shape of a cross, because we know that Jesus loves us always, no matter what. That’s always a good thing to remember. I’m glad we saved these old palms, so they can help us think about how much God loves us, even when we’re feeling sorry.

Today, we are going to make ashes out of these old palms out on the front steps of the church. It’s cold outside, so you can watch from inside the front door while I burn the palms. We are using real fire today. Remember, you should NEVER, EVER use real fire for ANY reason without a grown-up watching carefully. When the palms turn into ashes, if you want, I will draw a cross on your forehead, so you can show that you want to be a new person, a person who’s ready for Easter to come.

Let’s say a prayer together: Dear God - bless these palms - and bless the ashes - they will become - Help us to say - that we’re sorry - and help us - become new people. - amen.

Charting Spiritual Disciplines with Lenten Calendar Banners

Saturday, February 20th, 2010

img_79201During this Lenten season at Smithfield UCC, we are focusing on spiritual disciplines. Each Sunday, Senior Minister Doug Patterson is going to challenge the congregation to try a specific practice during the week. For instance, the first week’s focus is Silence, and the “homework assignment” is to spend three 20-minute periods in silence — not reading, not doing the dishes, just being still and listening for God’s voice. Meanwhile, during Pilgrim Adventures with the kids, I’ll be introducing the same practice the grown-ups are talking about upstairs, and I’ll give them a similar challenge (five minutes of silence seems like a lot when you’re only five years old!).

To kick this off, we’re having a special intergenerational workshop this Sunday morning, in place of our regular Smithfield School classes. I’m planning to begin with a quick trivia game to introduce some basic facts about Lent. Then, working in household groups, we’ll be making Lenten calendar banners to chart our progress in the six spiritual disciplines. Here’s how the banners work:img_7919

  • Cut a long, narrow piece of white butcher paper, approximately 10.5″ x 43″. (If you have purple butcher paper, that would be even better; we just have a giant roll of white. Such a roll is an investment well worth making, by the way.)
  • Print outlines of the letters “L-E-N-T” in a large font (I used Maiandra 250 pt) on dark purple paper. Cut out the letters and glue them to the top of the banner. (Dark purple paper can be hard to find … mine is from a ream of Astrobrights paper in assorted colors.)
  • Cut six 4.5″ squares of the dark purple paper. Glue them beneath the lettering, leaving approximately 1 inch between each square.
  • Glue a small envelope (3 5/8″ x 6 1/2″) below the dark purple squares, with the flap facing out. This will be the pocket to hold upcoming Sundays’ cards and the star stickers that will track your progress.
  • Using light purple cardstock, create a 3″ square for each of the weeks of Lent. At the top of the square, print Sunday’s date; at the bottom of the square, print the spiritual practice for the week (e.g. “March 7 - Charity”). Leave space in the middle of the card. This would be much easier if you can find sheets of lavender cardstock; I couldn’t find any, so I had to wrestle with my printer until I got it to print on 3×5 index cards.
  • img_7921With colored pencils, fine-line markers, or other art supplies, illustrate each spiritual practice in the center of the card. I found some of them much easier to represent than others — fresh veggies for “Health” was pretty straightforward, but what to draw for “Silence”? (I settled on a snow-covered landscape, remembering the deep silences of Lake Sunapee in midwinter in my childhood.)
  • Apply Velcro tape hooks to the center of each dark purple square, and the matching loops to the center of each light purple square, so that you can mount each spiritual practice on the calendar when that week arrives. Place the cards in the envelope at the bottom of the banner.
  • Add a sheet of multicolored star stickers to the envelope. Decide which color star will represent each member of the family.
  • Bring the banner home and hang it in a place where you will see it often: on the fridge, on the back of the front door, etc.
  • On each Sunday in Lent, gather as a family to remove the card with that day’s date; use the Velcro to attach it to the banner. As the week goes on, when you have completed your “assignment,” add your star sticker on that week’s square. Use the banner to chart your family’s progress as you experiment with spiritual disciplines, together with your church community!

Special thanks to Greg for his tremendous help with late-night brainstorming as we came up with this idea. I think these will be fun to make on Sunday, and, even more importantly, they will help our families make the connection between church and home during the season of Lent.

Ashes and Stickers: a children’s sermon for the first Sunday of Lent

Friday, February 19th, 2010

If the alleluia burial doesn’t strike your fancy, here is another children’s sermon for the first Sunday of Lent.

(Just before calling the children to come forward, put two stickers on your face)

What’s new? What’s going on? I see a lot of you looking at me kind of funny. What’s so strange? (duh, you have stickers on your face.) Oh, that. Right. (take off stickers and look at them quizzically) You know, this is the second time this week that people have looked at me strangely for having something on my face. Let me explain.

You see, this past Wednesday was a day called Ash Wednesday. It’s the first day of the church season of Lent. Lent is a time that we spend thinking about how we can grow to be better people, closer and closer to God. We feel sorry for the things we’ve done that haven’t been good. We try to pray more and to be kinder to others and not to take more stuff than we need. We’re doing this because we need to get ready, because in forty days we will have the biggest and best day of the whole year: Easter! When Easter comes, we need to be ready to party.

Lent begins with Ash Wednesday. It’s called Ash Wednesday because when people come to church that day, the minister puts these on their face, right on their forehead. (show container full of ashes) See? These are ashes. They’re the dust that’s left over when you have a fire. Way back in Bible times, people put ashes on their body to show that they were sorry for the things they did that were wrong. When we put ashes on ourselves today, it shows that we want to start over with God and start to live a better life.

Now, let me tell you: when I had ashes on my face on Wednesday, and I left the church and walked down the street, people looked at me like I was really weird! When I got on the bus, nobody wanted to sit next to me, because I looked so funny.

Sometimes other people think that the kinds of things we do in church are really crazy. Like wearing ashes on our heads. Or … loving our enemies. Or praying for people who hurt us. Or giving our time and money away for free. Or hanging out with all kinds of people, even people who are different from us, because we know God loves everybody. Sometimes it’s good to do things other people think are crazy. And maybe putting ashes on our heads every once in a while can remind us of that.

I wonder if you would like a sticker for your face today to remind you of how sometimes being a part of the church means you do things that seem a little crazy to other people. (give out stickers. You could, alternatively, give out ashes; the kids have no context for the “remember you are dust” language at this point, so you might say something like, “follow Jesus always” instead.)

Let’s say a prayer together. Dear God - thank you - for making us strong enough - to do things - that might seem crazy sometimes. - Help us to love everybody - and to do good - and to be better people. - Help us get ready for Easter - Amen.

Burying the Alleluia: a children’s sermon for Transfiguration or the First Sunday of Lent

Thursday, February 18th, 2010

Last night, just as I finished writing this post, our cable modem went on the fritz. I’m trying not to interpret this as divine judgment against the “daily posting in Lent” plan. Hmm.

Bearing in mind that I am dust and that to dust I shall return – and therefore not having particularly high expectations of my own success – I’m going to attempt this whole “daily posting during Lent” thing. Can’t hurt to try. To start with, I’m going to offer three different children’s sermon options for the first Sunday of Lent. I used this first one at Smithfield this past Sunday, for Transfiguration, but it could very easily be adapted for the first Sunday of Lent instead (especially if you’re part of a not-particularly-strict liturgical community that won’t mind a little Alleluia shouting at the start of worship). It’s based on a children’s sermon I heard Molly Baskette preach at First Church Somerville in 2007, complete with imaginative “catching” of alleluias. You can read more about the tradition of burying the alleluia here.

Supplies you need: large plant pot, potting soil, small box, white banner reading “Alleluia”

We have talked before about how the church tells time. Here in the church, we have different seasons from the rest of the world. Instead of having seasons like summer, winter, fall, and spring, we have seasons like Advent and Easter and Epiphany. Every season has a different mood and meaning. And every season has a color. What color do you see in the church today?

White! Today is a special day called Transfiguration. It’s the day we celebrate the moment when the disciples finally realized just how special Jesus is. They went up a mountain and suddenly saw Jesus standing there, with his face shining, and two very important people, Moses and Elijah, standing next to him. The disciples knew then that Jesus was the special Son of God. Today is a very happy day.

When we are happy in the church, we sometimes shout “Alleluia.” Alleluia is a word that means “Glory to God” in Hebrew. It’s a word that we shout when we’re happy about all the wonderful things God has done. Let’s shout “Alleluia” together on the count of 3 … 1, 2, 3, ALLELUIA!!

But next Sunday will be different. Next Sunday is the first Sunday of the season of Lent. The color for Lent is purple, a dark and serious color. Lent is a quiet, serious time of year when we get ready for Easter. It is so quiet and serious that we don’t shout “Glory to God.” We do not say the word “Alleluia” at all. We go without it, so it will seem even more special when we hear it again on Easter Sunday.

So, you will not hear the word “Alleluia” again in the church until Easter. For the next forty days, no one will say that word. We are going to put the Alleluia away. In fact, we are going to put Alleluia in this box and bury the box in this pot. And we won’t dig it up again until Easter.

So, let’s catch some Alleluias in the box. I need your help. Can you say “Alleluia”? (As the kids say “Alleluia,” pantomime “catching” them in the box.) Ok, I think I’ve got them all – here’s the Alleluia (show banner). We’re going to put it in this box, and then let’s sprinkle some dirt over it. (Be careful with the dirt pouring … I spilled so much that on Monday morning the church custodian thanked me for providing him with job security.) Goodbye, Alleluia. We’ll see you on Easter.

Let’s say a prayer together: Dear God – be with us – in the happy times – and the serious times too – Bring us to Easter – when we can say “Alleluia!” — Amen.

I’m going to use our buried Alleluia every Sunday in Lent this year; as a congregation, we will be learning about spiritual practices, and so each week we will water the Alleluia, symbolizing our nourishment of our relationship with God by our practice of the disciplines. And then, on Easter Sunday, the Alleluia will burst into bloom! I’ll have an array of flowers inserted in the plant pot; each child will have one to take home.

Stop by tomorrow for another possible children’s sermon for the first Sunday of Lent.

Links to Start Your Week

Monday, February 15th, 2010

I’m thinking about maybe trying to post here daily during Lent, kick-starting my way back into more frequent blogging. However, since my other vague Lenten intention involves reducing the time I waste online, I’m not sure how this is going to shake out. Two days left to decide if I’m looking at feast or fasting!

Speaking of using my online time more wisely, I finally got around to setting up a Google Reader account, so now I can catch up with all the blogs I follow without clicking through to each of them. What took me so long? Following my favorite sites — from excellent Godblogs to friends’ personal updates to cute pictures of baby animals — is now a streamlined, easy process. I don’t miss anything, and neither do I waste time clicking on sites that haven’t been updated in ages. Sweet!

Here are just a few of the Christian-education-related posts that have caught my attention recently:

  • I was struck by the opening quotations from Jeff Gaines in this post on A Church for Starving Artists. Moving from a fact-transmission model of education to a spiritual direction model is not only a matter of curriculum (though I do think the new UCC Faith Practices resources might help); it’s also a shift in our attitudes and expectations as educational leaders.
  • I’ve long been a fan of the “Ask the Matriarch” Thursday feature on Rev Gal Blog Pals. This week’s question concerned the thorny issue of attendance, which we’re struggling with this winter at Smithfield as well.
  • This post on Theolog questions whether youth belong in youth groups, or if teenagers should be integrated into the broader church community. (My personal opinion: why not do both?) There is a lot of thoughtful discussion in the comments.
  • I cannot remember how I found my way here, but this post from last February on a blog called Journey Through the Field of Life has forty fun suggestions for Lenten practices.
  • Pearls Before Swine, my favorite comic strip (and frankly, pretty much the only consistently funny traditional strip out there at the moment) had a moving tribute to the author’s father-in-law last Sunday. File this one in the “funeral homily” folder.